A healing journey / self development journey / spiritual awakening journey WILL result in you becoming a different frequency than most people / places / things around you. This results in a feeling of discord and can lead to focusing outward, with thoughts that “they are the problem” but unfortunately if you start focusing outward again, you will lower your vibe. You can’t make others wrong, because then you make you wrong. Also, everyone’s journey looks different and all you can notice is you are feeling some discord in your frequency in this relationship/place etc. and be grateful for the knowledge of the discord and be open to now using the higher frequency you have obtained for the good of all around you while you are attracting those other relationships/places/situations/things that are more in alignment with your upgrade. Love you!